Control or protection?

In the land of boyfriends, girlfriends, partners, and relationships there seems to be a few blurred lines. Loving beyond boundaries is one of them. One that has sprung to mind is the difference between control and protection. At the same time, most people often get sidetracked when they fall in love so sometimes trying to tell the difference in a relationship of the others intentions. These are proven to be difficult. A difference between someone who is trying to control you and one who wants to protect you are: Control Control isn’t about freedom. It’s about keeping bird in a cage and trying to stop it flying. Is treating a loved one as if they have no rights and they are in charge of them. Authority over one in order to give oneself the boost by having someone beneath them. Trying to physically stop you doing things you enjoy doing…